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Lately I have been getting a lot of responses from my readers thanking me for my research. Believe it or not, a ton of guys are out there doing their due diligence. They are buying sex toys for their women. And they are doing their homework before hand. All to make sure they get the best vibrator possible.
These men are also asking for a different type of advice all together. Sure they want to help their girl orgasm by getting her an awesome vibrator. But they also want to learn how to drive their lady wild without toys.
Buying sex toys for a girl is a great way to dip your toe into the slightly more kinky sex pool. But what if you want to dive a little deeper. What if you really want to up your game.
Hey guys, I get it. You are in a tough spot. You love and respect your women. And you want to treat them right. The last thing you want is to be boring. Who wants to be the “nice guy” who fails to really get her off.
You guys are looking for a little insight from a woman you trust. I am flattered. And I am happy to help. I am also here to tell you that it’s possible to be both a gentleman & a total rock star in bed at the same time.
How do you be both a gentleman and the object of her deepest sexual desire?
You simply combine confident language with your good manners (a good bit of naughtiness is tossed in for good measure.)
Yes, you can excite her from the top of her head all the way down to the tips of her soon to be curled toes by boldly stating just how bad you want her.
It’s that simple.
- How much she turns you on.
- Why sex with her is absolute heaven on earth.
All without being offensive. Or coming across like a wimp. Or worst of all…sounding like a cheesy romance novel.
Why Words Work
My friend Lawrence Lanoff, author of The Language of Lust, likes to say “sex happens in the body, eroticism happens in the mind”.
Language is your way in to her mind. It’s a secret doorway into her emotions. Words stimulate the imagination. When the imagination is properly stimulated there is a new space created. A space to explore fantasies.
Language is the ultimate sexuality hack.
If you understand the basic principle behind the language of lust, you don’t need to know what she likes or what she doesn’t like. There are universal truths that are basically guaranteed to work on any woman if you do them right. This means you literally can’t say guess wrong. You don’t have to over think it. And it will work on any woman…even if you just met her.
Here’s what you have to understand guys. Nothing makes a woman feel more sexy than knowing how much she turns you on. Verbalizing your desire validates her. It makes her desire you more.
And when you confidently tell her how she’s affecting you. You give her permission to be sexually uninhibited. As a result you elevate your sexual status to Rock Star in her eyes.
Winning Phrases to Use
Women like to feel adored. And they also love knowing that just their very essence fills you to the brim with desire. And sure, that sounds a little like sexual objectification. Yet when done the right way, won’t offend her. I promise.
Tell her things like:
- Good lord you are sexy. Do you have any idea how much
you turn me on?
- My body is tingling all over thinking about what I’m
going to do to you when I see you tonight.
- Thoughts of you have me so distracted today. I’m
thinking of so many deliciously naughty things.
She also wants to know you are tuned in to her needs. You can show her that her experience matters by confidently asking questions to engage her imagination and share with you.
- What does it feel like when you are really humming with
- What are some things that really turn you on?
- Have you ever been surprised by something that turned
Lawrence shares a ton of Winning Phrases to use along with the dangerous Failing Phrases to avoid at all costs in his program.
Listen, there is a plethora of bad advice out there for guys like you. Some of it downright slimy, manipulative, and unethical. A smart guy knows there has to be a better way. Check out this video my friend Lawrence put together for men like you.
Take it from me, a woman who basically talks, writes, and researches about sex and love all day long. What Lawrence has to share with you will absolutely blow her mind and have her squirming with desire for you.